You can find my talk on gender neutral pronouns in the link below (it is a big too large to upload directly to this site):
http://https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I4k2UZop_E0
"For we have been socialized to respect fear more than our own needs for language and definition, and while we wait in silence for that final luxury of fearlessness, the weight of that silence will choke us. The fact that we are here and that I speak these words is an attempt to break that silence and bridge some of those differences between us, for it is not difference which immobilizes us, but silence." – Audre Lorde